Thursday, April 30, 2009
11:53 PM Y
Post title : My 2nd granduncle passed away..
♥ You'll never know the real me.
This evening jux received a message from my 4th uncle, mentioning tt my 2nd granduncle had jux passed away in e late afternoon today..only a few days ago my mum told me tt he suffered from lung cancer,and it's already at e last stage..e doc said tt he got another 3-6 months to live,but he jux left after being diagnosed in less than a month..it's quite sudden actually,coz about 1-2 days ago when some of my relatives went to visit him,he's still able to talk to them quite well...
Maybe like wat my mum said,"chang tong bu ru duan tong",perhaps it's better this way,coz at least he wun have to suffer so much..
My mum also tink tt maybe he's choosing e right time to leave..sounds rather weird,but i tink it might be true..one of his daughters,which is our aunt,works in china and flew back after receiving news about my granduncle being hospitalised..she has to fly back to china a few days later after today..maybe he wanted my aunt,and their whole family,to be able to see him for e last time before she goes back to china,and she wun have to travel to and fro..maybe he dun wan his daughter to feel too sad abt not being able to see him for e last time if she went back to china and couldnt come back in time to see his father for e last time...a loving dad still cares about his children even before he left..it really tells us tt parents do care about their children always no matter where and when..
ok..i better stop here before i start crying..anw,it's jux a simple message to all:
cherish your family members while u can bcoz they are e ones who love u e most,no matter wat happens..maybe they dunno how to express their love for u,or maybe they dun show their care and concern for u in e ways tt u tink they shld,but tt doesnt mean they dun love u..Rest in peace,granduncle..we will miss you..
